Merry Christmas from the Cook Family

Please excuse the quality of my pictures... my camera is not a regular digital camara. The lighting was terrible, but we tried to dress alike for the Sunday morning service.
By the way, I don't recommend doing all the work that I have done the past few days to those who just had a baby. But, it does give me a sense of normality right now, which I felt the need for. I have had some pain because I get a little carried away. Overall, I am doing great though.
The baby is doing well, and the children are enjoying their presents.

Thank you, dear churches, families, and friends!

Well, we got a downpour of a Christmas blessing from a kind church yesterday. Thank you to all who gave in that! I don't know really what to say, but I think I shall not run out of diapers for a very long time. Thank you to all those churches who have loved, given, and prayed for our family during this difficult time.

I really want to thank our church (Wesleyan Evangelistic Church), too, for they shower prayer, friendship, and listening ears, and they are walking through this with us... and, then, wow, all the many other churches praying for us... it just makes me want to cry and makes me so glad to be a part of the great family of God. Thank you, everyone for your notes, phone calls, etc., for they do cheer me so. By the way, I think Ron is saving those cards you are sending, for when he feels down, he can go back and read them again.

Mega-thanks to his parents! They've taxi driven us, cleaned our house, baby-sat, and did basically whatever we needed them to do the past couple of weeks.

We did enjoy the visit today from Ron's boss. Wow! Loved the card with all those signatures and notes. Thanks for all! I must say that I am verythankful for the job Ron had, because his insurance and catastrofic sick-leave is going to help us out majorly! We received a bill for $10 and some cents, and the rest of the bill was being paid by insurance and benefits... it was going to be 40 some thousand dollars so far. I know not everyone has insurance, and my heart does go out to you, because medical bills are huge these days! I think this will help me to pray harder for my dear friends who are in this situation. I don't know if we will always have these benefits either, so I am thankful for what we have now!

Today, Ron had his second chemo treatment. He really does well with them so far... mostly it saps his energy. But, really, I am impressed at how well he is.

I feel tons better today. I was having tremendous pains, but today I have felt worlds better, and even tried my first shopping trip with three little ones... It was an adventure to say the least, and I only bought five things! I worked on organizing my kitchen today, and did some other cleaning, as well. It feels good to have my energy back! Actually, I almost feel like staying up half the night doing more work... sounds crazy for somone who just had a baby 8 days ago, huh? You just have to understand that I went to church the day after I had Faith, and went IHC 6 days after I had Charity... really, I love church and God's people. I LOVE camp, revivals, etc., but do find ia little more difficult to hear a whole sermon these days. I am sure all those Mamas out there know what I mean. Anyway, I don't like to be down for long, so I praise God for the renewed energy.

Do keep in touch, and may ya'll have a very Merry Christmas!

More from the Cook house

Ron and his girls





Well, I am so sorry that there seems to have been a miscommunication on the baby's picture, so you will have to settle for my home pictures.

Much has happened the past few days. Hope went to church for the first time Sunday evening. What a cold day to venture out!

Ron got a port put in today for his chemo, so that they won't have to keep poking him. He was having problems with blood clots, and he had an infection under his arm which is being treated with antibiotics, so hopefully this port will spare him of such problems in the future.

A dear church in the Cincinnati area, Kenwood Bible Methodist Church, has a youth group who decided to buy gifts for our family for Christmas... it was really sweet of John and Mary (the youth pastors) to stop by and deliver those yesterday. The girls had so much fun. Charity was horrified at one of her gifts at first... it was a dancing, Spanish-singing monkey. She just stood there saying, "I don't want it" over and over. We laughed so hard! Then, when she saw how much Faithy loved it, she decided she liked it too. Now, I think the thing might drive me crazy! The gifts were all so very nice... hope you enjoy the photos of last nights Christmas celebration! I heard another church has such things up their sleeve as well! Wow! I think I shall be in shock after this Christmas. Everyone has been so kind!

Besides feeling like someone beat me up, I am doing fine. Really, though, I am recovering pretty well, and I am so happy to have my little one here. By the way, never change your baby's diaper near a computer... my baby, well... let's just say my keyboard got a good cleaning today! Never saw that one coming! Ha!

A sweet moment took place here the other day when Faith and Charity decided to "have devotions" together and took turns "reading" their Bibles... copying what we do in Family Devotions. It was worth it all to see them "read" and pray together. Warmed this mama's heart!

Hope you enjoyed the pictures! Good night and God bless!

Welcome! Hope Christiana Cook

She arrived at almost 2:30pm on Thursday, December 13, 2007. I was induced 2 1/2 weeks before my due date given by ultrasound. There was a little scare at the end before she was delivered as the baby's heartrate dropped due to an umbilical cord being wrapped around her little body, but God helped it her to come before a c-section was necessary. Praise God! She weighed in at 8 lbs 1 oz... so, her weight was actually considered large for gestational age... so, the poor girl kept getting poked and checked for sugar problems. Her length was 20 1/4 inches. She is fine, and gorgeous! She seems so tiny to me and fragile. I wish they would stay small for a little longer sometimes. She loves eating, sleeping, and being held (sounds like many adults). I think she resembles her daddy most. Her hospital photo should be available within the next couple of days on www.GrowingFamily.com
Feel free to check it out!
Faith and Charity are so excited about her. The day before I went into the hospital, Faith fell into the coffee table, and we spent much of that Tuesday at Children's Hospital... it took many hours of waiting to get done something that only takes a few minutes. They glued her eyelid instead of stitching it in hopes that it would be a smaller scar. Don't worry, it wasn't that big of a cut... she is a little bruised though! I know it sounds like we love hospitals right now, but, really I would like to take a break from the action!
Ron has been a great help to me today... I even got a nap when I got home... I think I shall get more rest here than the hospital! It is good to be home!
Enjoy the snow! (All those who live near) It sounds like we will have plenty! By the way, my OB/GYN was in a minor accident today because of the weather when she was trying to get to the hospital to see me! Brave lady!
I am recovering pretty well. We thank you all for your prayers.

Recent Family Photos (sorry about the quality)

There you've got it! New pictures at last. Some of them are pictures of pictures... so the quality it not good. I have some pictures of one of the last children's church services we did together, but I will plan to share those later, as I think this is alot for today, and my computer is having personality issues in the picture download area. Ron does wear a hat often right now since he still has alot of stitches. He did start chemo Friday, but they may have to be more aggressive, we'll see. Thanks for praying! Notice the picture of me and my hugeness... Soon, very soon, I shall see the gift inside! I had to put the picture of Charity in the basket. That is the basket that is for dress up clothes (something Faithy loves to do), but, Charity found another use for it. The real picture of the girls with the Christmas tree is much cuter, but Faith sometimes makes faces for the camera and she looks silly. They are too funny.

Be still, and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10

Be Still My Soul
Words: Katharina von Schlegel
Music: Jean Sibelius

Be still, my soul; the Lord is on thy side.
Bear patiently the cross of grief or pain.
Leave to thy God to order and provide;
In every change He faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul; thy best, thy heavenly Friend
Through thorny ways leads to a joyful end.

Be still, my soul; thy God doth doth undertake
To guide the future as He has the past.
Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
All now mysterious shall be bright as last.
Be still, my soul; the waves and wind still know
His voice who ruled them while He dwelt below.

Be still, my soul; the hour is hast'ning on
When we shall be forever with the Lord,
When disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,
Sorrow forgot, love's purest joys restored.
Be still, my soul; when change and tears are past,
All safe and blessed we shall meet at last.

I'm sure there's a reason...

An overnighter at the hospital... unsuccessful! I expected to come home with a bundle of joy, and instead... well, baby is still tucked away!
They had thought that the baby was under distress yesterday, and sent me off quickly from the doctor's office to the hospital to be induced... well, baby seems okay, and I just got an overnighter and false promises at a hospital... I am sure there is a purpose behind this... just am waiting to find it out.

They say they love me...

It was a sweet thing that Faithy said to me the other day... She said that I was the best! She made my day! Both of the girls now say "I love you" to me, and I just eat it up, of course. Then, Faith looked outside yesterday at the snow and was talking about it, then finally said "This is the best day ever!" So cute! Not sure if everyone felt as happy as she about the snow, but she thought it was great! Just thought I would share a proud moment with you!
Then, she decided last night to tell our pastor's wife that our house was a "disaster" and about her toys, etc... she went on and on about it... kids can be too open and honest sometimes! They make me laugh! Would love to hear some of your kids' sayings, etc. Have a good one!

Good News

Hey, Faith did fantastic playing the bells on Saturday and Sunday. I promised her a whole piece of gum each night if she did well. She played with great enthusiasism. Sorry if you missed it! She was the shortest child up there, although one girl was actually six weeks younger than her. It was so adorable!

I have been able to spend more time with the girls lately, and I am glad, because, well, they are great! Not to say they always behave, but there sure have been some funny moments the last few days. Today, they danced to some kid's songs and it was so funny, I just sat there and watched... would not have wanted to miss that for the world! You would have had to have been there. Then, the other day, while I was on the phone with a dear friend, Faith decided to use Daddy's guitar case as a slide, and I promptly stopped that activity... thought she might ruin it. Charity has been talking in whole sentences!!! She has been shocking me at what she can say!

Ron is almost done with the radiation treatments! Yeah for him! Second step almost done! With the surgery and radiation done, he will have the chemo to face, and we've heard good things about the effectiveness of chemo on Hodgkins. By the way, he starts that on Friday this week! He may only need to go in once every other week for that. It takes about four hours to do. I am glad that it is not an every day thing like radiation is. So is he!

Hey, don't be too surprised to see a welcome to the world post soon for the baby! I think it will be VERY soon! Yeah! I am looking forward to holding her in my arms!

Ron had a special day today. When he woke up, he arose to a fairly clean home, lots of clean laundry, and a love letter from yours truly. Okay, it really is amazing what one can get done when all of the house is sleeping! Another cool thing we got to do today is go out calling. This is Ron's heartbeat!!! He had such a great time! I wasn't able to get out of the car with him, because I had the children with me, but I sure had fun knowing that I was able to help him be a blessing. The people were even more responsive than usual, because they had been told about his illness. Amazing how all things do work together for good!

Thanks for all your prayers and notes!!! Have a good night!

Busy... busy...

That about explains it all these days. Guess I ought to tell you what they found out about Ron's bones... I guess the cancer is on the bones... but, it is not deep into them... not in the marrow either. However, this does put him at stage 4. He finishes the radiation Thursday, and is scheduled to start chemo the following Monday. He is doing well, all things considered.

We are having a bout of sickness here agian with the children, who seem to love to bring home any bug out there... not good for my hubby since his immune system is down. Please, pray that he will not catch whatever it is the girls have.

My girls have huge amounts of energy these days, and can tare through a clean house in a matter of moments, leaving it looking as if no work had ever been done. Actually, I wonder what their motive is for being so destructive!

Tonight, our church is having a Christmas play,and Faithy is supposed to play the bells. I sure hope she cooperates this time. Bless her heart, she has been having a bit of a struggle these days.

Well, I must go and get ready for tonight! Have a great and relaxing weekend! He He

Come, Baby, Come!

Would love to hear from you, mamas, what tricks you have used to try to get your baby to quickly arrive. Oh, the tricks I have tried! Faithy would not come for anything... even for the doctor when they tried to induce me. With her, I tried hurrying up and down my church's stairs, doing jumping jacks, and a few other things to bring on labor... for I had high BP with her, as well, and I was HUGE! She just would not come! Not until she was 9lbs 8 ozs anyway! Then, with Charity, the induction worked... High BP again... but, the three week early baby did not look like a three week early baby... 8lbs 0.2oz. Now, I am 35 1/2 weeks, and I am sure my baby is the size of most "normal" sized babies... and, I can hardly wait! So guess what I have been doing... well, in just the past few days I have put up Christmas decorations, cleaned house like a mad woman, raked "mountains" of leaves, brought up baby clothes from the basement, took my children for an outing, lifted my children in and out of the van numerous times, ran lots of errands, washed tons of laundry, went to church each time the doors were opened, went to lots of doctor's appointments, etc... but, baby is still safely tucked away in her nest. Oh, how much bigger can I get?
Oh, by the way, for those who enjoy free or cheap outings, this is what I did with my gals. After going to my doctor's appointment with me, which turned out to be a little wild, we went to BK playland... I spent five something and fed both girls and me, then we went to the pet store and let the girls look at the animals (they loved this!), then, we went to the library (okay, that was not as fun... they were not very library-behaved). It has been interesting these days! Gotta have fun!

Catching up on the news

We had some good church services today... several of Ron's family members came, and that was very encouraging.

He has begun treatments, and we are looking forward to recovery.

He has been able to witness to alot of people through this, and we thank God that "all things do work together for good..."

Please keep praying for us, it means so much... so do those visits and cards!

Hope to have some new photos soon.

Off we start...

Well, we went to Ron's parents for Thanksgiving, and had a really nice time! They have been a BIG help to us these days!

Ron started radiation today. He is to have ten treatments, then start chemo if all
goes as planned.

Something neat in all this is that several family members told Ron that they will be at church Sunday morning... aunts, uncles, cousins, in-laws, etc... Wow! All things do work together for good! The group may take up several pews! That is so wonderful! Some of his family already attend church, but MANY, perhaps most of this croud does not. This will be a special Sunday morning to Ron as he has prayed for these loved ones for so long! Please pray that God's presence will be so near!

I began decorating for Christmas this afternoon. It was kin-of fun, but the girls kept wanting to eat the candy canes off the tree, so I had to adjust my decorating as to spare my children from enormous temptation.


Anyway, I sure hope everyone is doing well! I sure do appreciate all the cards, calls, and love that has been sent our way. But, nothing compares to the power of prayer. Just tonight, Sister Ada Hobbs called and prayed with Ron over the phone, and he was deeply touched. I tried to pray silently where I was, but it was a little difficult because of a couple of little people in my house, but I felt so much calm and peace in that time... So, for those who aren't able to come and do things in person, please don't feel bad, just please pray... it is the most powerful thing you can do anyway!

By the way, here's a mom story for you. Okay, I have been feeling deeply disconnected with my children, and I long for that family bonding again... but, anyway, I tried to do fun things with my kids this afternoon... but, it turned out to be a very interesting time. Earlier, while I was "trying to catch a nap" (Ha!), I had to get up because I couldn't sleep. I came into the dining room, just to discover that there were major drawings with marker on dining room carpet... Aaaaugh! So the three year old artist got in trouble, and Mommy scrubs carpet. Fortunately, the markers were washable! Later, THE SAME ARTIST was using water colors, and Mommy warned her to be sure she only painted in the coloring book on the children's picnic table. Later she calls me into the kitchen to show me what she had been doing... Guess what is was... yep, the artist had decided to paint the wall! I was dying... this time, the artist received a painful lesson to obey, and not to paint, draw, etc., on anything but paper. I hope she remember that "lesson" for future reference. Fortunately, she had painted on the part of the wall that has slick paint, and it came off. I am glad the clean-up was successful today, or I would have alot to explain to my landlord! What a day!

Well, guess I had better try to catch some Zs while I can breathe! Good night!

When the Music Fades...

Wednesday morning we went to find out the results of the PET scan and bone marrow biopsy. The bone marrow was clear... Praise God! His organs seem clear, but, here's some new info. There are "spots" showing up on several bones, and they are needing to do further investigation to confirm cancer on the bones.

As far as baby and me, my doctor did an ultrasound the other day, and says the baby is already almost 6 lbs... if you know my history... I had a 9 1/2 lb baby, was induced 3 weeks early with my second, and she was already 8 lbs... then, the doctor suspects this one will be larger! Aaaugh! She put me on BP medication, because I don't seem to be getting better with all that is going on. She may induce me again 3 weeks early! I don't much mind... I am getting weary of being so huge anyway!

My children got shots Tuesday. I made sure they got their flu shots before Ron began chemo, because he will be in great danger around sick little ones. We are big into disinfecting around here now as you could imagine.

God has blessed us with so very much, and I know that no matter what happens, that God is still good.

Thank you for praying.
Sarah

HE'S HOME!

Praise God, Ron is home! I can't tell you how good it is to have him here!

Everyone has been so kind... doctors, friends, nurses, churches, etc. God has been very good to us. Thank you loved ones for all your prayers and support.

In case you want to know something about the baby as well. I can hardly breathe! I feel very great with child, and I have had some swelling, and I suspect this is another one of my large babies! The children are fine, and it is nice to be at home as a family. It is still probably going to be rather chaotic, with the possibility of chemo beginning next week. I have alot to be thankful for this Thanksgiving, as God has spared my husband this far, and we will have three beautiful children really soon.

Thanks again for everything.
Sarah

For When I am Weak, then I am Strong

Ron sat up for quite a while yesterday. He even ate two good meals! He was strong throughout the day... as much as a brain surgery/ cancer patient can be. But, after the oncologist came and talked with us, he was ready to sleep. I haven't seen him since, but I plan to be there early this morning. I am like his aid, I suppose. I learned something interesting yesterday about shaving men's faces... use a good razor... and, please don't use cold water! My hubby is teaching me! Today he should be able to do that all by himself. I imagine they will have him up and walking today. They talk as though he should come home this week. Yeah! I miss him so much!

Good news

The brain surgery went well. They said the tumor was also Hodgkins lymphoma, and the surgeon said the plans looks like chemotherapy and radiation. Ron is talking non-stop, and so they are wanting to limit visitors, because he needs rest. You wouldn't believe how much he keeps talking to anyone and everyone! It is a little funny. He looks quite good, all things considered. I shall miss him tonight. The doctors are very hopeful on him. Praise God!

Allow me to indulge in a few picts of my hubby...

before the bald head. Actually, he is still cute without his hair!

Okay, I know you have seen most of these in previous posts, but I don't have much more saved on my disk yet. He might shoot me for the shaving one. He he! Do keep praying!

There Will Be No Dark Valleys When Jesus Comes

That secret prayer request mentioned in previous posts: My husband... test results... not good. Brace yourself! My husband has been diagnosed with lymphoma (I believe they said Hodgkins)... yes, cancer. He also has a tumor lying under his brain as well, and will need brain surgery (biopsy) this Sunday, unless a miracle take place. I know this is blunt, and rather overwhelming to those reading, but, I am not sure that there is an easy way to tell you. We are sad and broken. Pray for Ron... he was hoping it was just an infection, and we cried together when the news was broken to us. Pray for the girls, they don't understand what is happening, naturally, but they know that Mimi has been around alot lately to take care of them. Please pray for all our family... his parents, etc, as this is a difficult time. May the Lord's will be done. I love my husband VERY much, as he is also my best friend.

Just so you know

I hope people out there are not thinking that I have a nasty germ infested house. I have bleached toys, disinfected many doorknobs, bleached this and that until my husband sometimes has trouble breathing in his own home due to all the disinfectants and bleaches. Then, I also boiled tooth brushes, etc. Poor Ron... I melted his... oops! Just wanted to let you know before you think I have some nasty house or something, since it does seem plagued with illnesses of late. I have not escaped the germs... I have a cold that hurts my ears and throat and is leaving me drained of the normal energy. I suppose this too shall pass. Charity is being very difficult the past couple of days... she sometimes screams and cries inconsolably... I am looking forward to being back to normal here!

The Good and the Bad

Charity is my next croup victim, but she is getting steroids and breathing treatments from home. Yep, things are wild here... So keep praying!

Thank you so much for praying!

Seeing definite improvements in my children! Ron went to work as I knew he probably would. He is not a lazy guy, and he actually seems to like to work... whereever he is! He is not easy to get to sit down for long. I did finally go back to sleep, although whenever someone would disturb me, I was very grouchy! Too tired to be bothered. Today, I have actually relaxed and have hardly done a thing. Good thing, because I have a dr appointment this afternoon, and would not want to make doctor upset about my not resting. I actually feel really tired, and would love to sleep the day away.

I am so glad that my children seem to be getting well... Praise be to Jesus Who does hear and answer prayer. I hope croup never visits our home again... Faithy frightened me more than I can say! Thanks again for your prayers!

Continue to pray for Dad. He actually is still not feeling well! And, pray for that sort-of unspoken, unwritten, request that was mentioned in an earlier post!

By the way, the teens from our church who went to Youth Challenge did an excellent job speaking at our church last night! I wasn't able to go to Youth Challenge as I am sure you could imagine! But, their reports were beautiful! God is really doing great things in their lives, and I am excited to see what He is doing! Oh, and thank you to the teen girls who called me to say hi from Youth Challenge! They made my day! I was feeling so disconnected from them, and wanted so badly to be at Youth Challenge with them, but I really enjoyed their phone call, even if we missed the belching contest... Don't ask... yes, it is gross, but you never know what these girls are doing on their spare time :-) That was another year's memory!

My helpers for Children's Church are doing an excellent job as well. When we are through with the construction theme, we plan on doing a "Beginnings" theme. Thanks to Lauren M., Ron, Karen B., some teens, Electa H., and several others (especially Mel Y. who loaned and donated some material for our present theme), Children's Church marches on. All I really have to do is organize, plan, and hand out jobs (which is work, but kind-of fun!). They do the tough work. And, that is beautiful to me! And, more "restful." Hope to get some pictures posted of the construction theme soon.

The church had Pastor Appreciation night last night, and it was fun... for this was the first time in probably two weeks that I have gone to church, and I have missed it! (I don't usually make it a habit to miss church :-) but I didn't have much choice in the matter.) We have an awesome pastor and family, and I sure hope they enjoyed the fellowship and gifts. Their friendship means so much to our family!

Well, I need to go. Thanks again for all your prayers... Oh, and one more thing, I was told that they weren't able to do that surgery on my uncle... so keep praying for him, too. Well... there's the news... good and bad... but, we are marching on.

Calling all Believers to Prayer!

Please, help me pray! It is the middle of the night, and in answer to one child's cry, I found fever number one... low-grade, but very present- axillary 99.9 F, Charity! NOT HER TOO! Upon return to my bedroom, after giving infant Tylenol and water to baby, I discover that husband is hot to the touch! 99.8 F... orally, low-grade but very present! Second child, who already has croup awakens, coughs, and goes to bathroom... hot to touch! 99.7 F axillary... cries! Me, no fever, just tears! In case you are wondering, I did mine axillary as well and it is only 97.1. Yeah! Got a little tickle in the throat, but I am fine. I fear Charity is catching the croup as she did cough a bit, but Ron... well, his story is... well, I... oh, you don't want to know! It is not fun. I am scared. Yes, happy jolly Sarah is scared and I am not sure when I will be able to go back to sleep... bedrest is out of the question, unless I have some serious help today. I am sure Ron will probably feel a little better in the morning, I think he usually does, and he will probably go on to work. He's a pretty tough guy... I am not as tough... I need two or three to gather in Jesus' name for us... will you?

When it rains, it pours!

And, we are drenched here! I have not been obeying my doctor! You would just have had to be here to know why!

Believe it or not, FAITH HAS CROUP! It has been one of the more scary illnesses my children have ever had... It is a terrifying thing knowing your child can hardly breathe! And, the hoarse breathing with the barky cough is almost unnerving! She received an injection today and a breathing treatment, I don't know if it will be enough... we may need to go back for more!

My dad just got out of the hospital, and they couldn't find anything wrong... some believe God healed him... Perhaps so. They had fear congestive heart failure or something to do with the lungs because of the symptoms he was having... but, they couldn't find anything.

I was told my uncle was in the hospital at the same time, and facing surgery.

I sit here still wondering how I am to keep my blood pressure under control with all the stress. I am reminded of the song that says, "When All Around My Soul Gives Way, He Then Is All My Hope And Stay."

Please, please pray for us. Especially for another "unspoken" or "unwritten" request (very, very serious... perhaps more than any of the other things mentioned!) of a certain family member... this is extremely dear to my heart. This loved one doesn't wish to be broadcasted right now.

Gotta go... I am cramping and need to change positions!

Thanks for your prayers!

Happy Birthday, Ron!

First, I will say that I am doing a little better, and now have permission to go to calm and quiet places in a wheelchair! Ha! That shall be a sight to behold... and, what about home... it's not very calm and quiet! With two toddlers who love music (loud), Your Story Hour (loud), arguing (loud)... getting the point?!

For those who think I have become some veggie, think again! I have read a 400 and some page book, crocheted a baby bonnet, mittens, and booties, and worked some more on the baby blanket which I am nearly finished with! I also have broken the rules some, because I can hardly stand the main part of house house being disorderly... bad Sarah! The church is still bringing supper meals, and offering help... this is so very sweet of them! God's people are so wonderful... and, I know Who made them that way! Thank you, one and all!

You wouldn't believe what I accidently did to my 18 month old today while brushing her teeth! I made her gag, which caused her to vomit BIG time! Ooops!

Today, Ron and I both had doctor's appointments... and, THIS IS HIS BIRTHDAY! He is officially 32 years old... and, I want many more years with this wonderful man God has allowed me to be a help meet to. (Although, right now, I feel like he's MY helpmeet, with all the work he has to do for me since I am on bedrest.) I love him so much! I can't even begin to tell you just how much he means to me. Being married to him has made me so much a better and more mature person. If you knew me before marriage, well, you would know how silly and whimpy I was. He inspires me to do my best, and to be a better disciplined Christian! I love him for that! My girls adore him as well. We have been through some tough times in our marriage, and we've come out stronger through each trial. I don't know what I would do without him, for besides Jesus, Ron is my very best friend!

As you could imagine, I had a hard time making today special with all that is going on here... more than you all know about... but, I cheated on my bedrest and made him a cake and had his mother, sister and children, and our neighbor over for maybe 2 hours. Faith and Charity made birthday cards, and my gift to him is in the mail, and should arrive in a couple of days! Since I can't go out shopping, I ordered him a couple of missions books over the phone. I totally forgot to take pictures! My forgetter has not forgotten how to forget! (Hey, give me a point... I made that up all by myself!)

Ron, I love you so much! Thank you for being you! I have no desire for any other, for you are the best!

By the way, if you think that I mean that being married has made me shriveled up and no more interested in humor... think again! I just play my games more dignified! Ha!
Say, do you think Youth Challenge counts as being quiet and calm? ;-) I haven't quite made up my mind. Working with young people is about the quietest and calmest job I have ever had! Yeah, right! Ask the girls in our youth group how quiet we are... then again, please don't! They tend to stretch their stories about their youth pastor's wife, and I have a reputation to protect!
On a more serious note, please pray for one of our teen gals, Jennifer. Her grandfather was rushed to the hospital tonight with a possible heart attack. Her grandfather is a very faithful worker in our church.

We haven't been as in touch with our teens as we were, because now we have also been doing some children's ministry there... plus maintanance, plus taking care of our own children, plus this and that! But, we do schedule regular activities with the teens and have Sunday School with them. We also have been using some of them in Children's Church! They are really neat people! I sure hope they enjoy Youth Challenge this weekend!

Hope all my readers are doing well! Maybe someday I will return to posting pictures :-) Have a great evening! Take care. Signing off... Me

Bedrest blues

Okay, I am not too blue, for many people are stepping up to the plate, and bringing meals and helping with my children and house! Thank you, dearest family and friends.

Here is my Blue's Song:
Monday, I got put on bedrest, my fish died, and my van was still sitting at the church broken down. Tuesday, my little Charity got really sick and by the time she stopped vomiting the next day she had thrown up about 9 times, and wasn't even keeping fluids down. The presciption we got cost us $20 for two pills! Wednesday, I unhappily started a 24 hour urine collection for my BP test... do you know where I was told to store that thing? In my fridge! Yuck! When I get up for long I am miserable... Oh, I have got the blues! In a blessed sort of way :-) If it weren't for helpful family and friends, I would have the real blues... now, I am not feeling well, because I am sitting up longer than I ought... OOOOH! I REALLY MUST GO LIE DOWN! The hypertention blues!

resting... resting

Yes, I am on bedrest! Gotta go now... another dr visit!

Not Again!

Okay... I still have my internet, believe it or not! I still haven't made that phone call to cancel!
Been having some exciting days these past few days... Went to GBS Homecoming last night and it was fun! The crowds bothered me a bit, since it is not easy to get around 100s of people without loosing a toddler! But, we actually made it, and the singing was great! My kids were bad, and I could just imagine what the other folks around me were thinking when they saw suckers in my children's mouths during church. We sat against the wall and I really didn't want to get out of my seat to climb over a half a dozen people to take a child out for a "meeting." I could see myself tripping over someone's foot and making a loud exit as I scrambled back up huge bellied with two toddlers crying behind me for mercy... so I pacified my children with whatever I could to make it through the service... bad mommy! Oh, well! My oldest sang loudly with those who were singing "How Great Thou Art." At first I thought she was shouting! I had to laugh... she was so into the song!
There was someone dressed up like a cow in the gymnasium where the booths were, and Faith flipped out! She was so scared! There was no convincing her that it was safe, she was beside herself with fear! Inside I thought it was funny, but I felt bad for her too. It was about the first thing she mentioned to me when she got up this morning! I suppose it will be a while before she recovers! I told her it was a person playing dress up, and she said something about it being jammies (PJs). I think she is getting the idea now.
Oh, it was sure nice to see so many "old" friends. I honestly was impressed by some of you into deep thoughts! I realized that the marriages that I really held highly were my friends who were very happy... or at least acted like it, and were very respectful to one another... they still were in love and didn't have a panicked look. Not that their children were being little angels, or that they were feeling well, but they were calm and friendly... I don't know, maybe I need to take a chill pill, but I must confess that I don't think I smile enough, and relax... And, then I evaluated my actions toward Ron in public... Am I submissive and cheerful about it? Or, do I constantly give him that look? Ron is a very capable leader of a family and, you know, I do feel much more thankful and content when I let him do his job. Hmmm.... now you all didn't know you were such inspirations, did you?
Oh, guess what happened this morning!? I got this strange feeling... not a comfy one... especially when you are seeing spots and feeling like you must still down before your body explodes or you pass out! A warning signal went off in my head! For those who don't know I have had problem with high blood pressure at the end of each of my last two pregnancies and was put on bedrest! I did NOT feel well this morning... and, I just KNEW what was wrong... so, I called my nurse friends from church and asked if they would kindly stop by and check my blood pressure. 130/94 was the reading... and, that was even a few hours later when I was feeling better! Oh, no! What is my doctor going to say?! I usely have pretty BP readings except in late PG. This is high compared to my normal readings... I think I shall laugh if she tries to put me on bedrest. #1 I have 2 toddlers, a husband, and a house to care for.
#2 I don't sit still very well.
#3 I have many responsibilities at our church... and, did I mention that I can't sit still!?
At least the reading wasn't as bad as one time when I was pregnant with Charity and the bottom number was 101! My feet are not swollen, and I haven't spilled proteins according to my doctor at my last visit. I haven't called her yet, but I think I might have to soon... She tells me to "do that praying thing you do, it seems to work." Bless her heart, she doesn't realize in not my actions, but the Person I know who is helping me.
Do pray for me, I know that if it keeps going up, she is going to put me on bedrest, and I will not know how to control myself. I am very choosy about the care of my children, and I don't like people to see my house in an unheaval! Plus, meals, and all that stuff...
Uh Oh, I need to go, my children are raiding the refrigerator! They both just came in with chocolate syrup bottles in their hands, and Faith was licking the top of one! Aaaugh! Help! Like I said, "How could I go on bedrest?" NOT AGAIN!

Well, sort of

Okay, so I haven't been diligently using cloth diapers. Charity has a diaper rash and diarrhea, and I feel that it would be maybe better to use Luvs for a while... we were using some cloth diapers and some off-brand disposable, and it wouldn't be bad had she not got a stomach issue.... so, we are back to Luvs for a while.
Faith and I did alot of housework this morning and she got a sewing lesson from Mommy... yes, she is only three, but she thought it was fun! She is being a very big girl this morning, and you wouldn't believe the chores she was doing! She even mopped a few rooms! Charity helped put away blocks... but, that is about all for her this morning.
We still have our home phone, because Ron thinks it wise to keep it. But, we are planning to get rid of the internet at home and my Classmates account... Not because we are going under financially, but little things sure add up! I will plan to take trips to the library to keep you all informed about our lives!
Gotta go.... The girls are waiting to go play outside!

scroll down for a new post! Late Night Shopping Story

Started the post several days ago, that is why it is down further!

Making progress!

Worked so hard yesterday, and having trouble getting anything done today! Yesterday, I had Faithy doing several chores with me, and she usually enjoys it (except cleaning her room). I swept, steam cleaned, made a curtain (yes, I believe this is my first curtain) for the girls' bedroom, washed dishes, cleaned the bathroom, washed laundry, did some mopping, etc, etc. Plus, did some more reading.
Bad news is that my nerves are really short! I feel like a walking time bomb, and my children are asking me 1001 questions, and I feel like going on strike! Where's the duct tape?! Not really... but, if you have children, I am sure you know what I talking about. I played in their bedroom with them today for about an hour, and that was about all I could take... it was fun, but I am not sure what my problem is the past couple of days!
Good news is that I have come up with some neat ideas on how to save money... one of the most dramatic is going cloth diapers... well, I think that at bedtime, I still want disposable... we haven't completely decided on some of the stuff, but I brought some of my thoughts to Ron yesterday, and he is thinking about it. One thing is to get rid of the internet, and just go to the library, which is only a mile or less from our house anyway! There is much more, but I really would rather have my hubby around than all the luxeries. He has been working his full-time job, and several side jobs, and I would like to help ease the stress of the bills... not to mention, he is also very involved in ministries.
I am looking forward to our next series in Children's Church... it is a construction theme that was sent to us by our missionary friends, the Yates. Later, we may do a creation theme, but it will take alot of work to get it ready!
Well, if you have trouble reaching our home number in the future, you will need to get our cell numbers... not willing to put it on my blog because I am not sure I know who all gets on here... gotta be safe! Call my home number in the next few days and ask for my cell if you want the numbers. We may get rid of the home phone. We'll see. I don't really mind. I spend too much time on the computer and phone anyway. These were my ideas, so it doesn't mean it will happen, because the head of the house will be the final decision maker.
Well, on a more cheery note... (Not that I am sad about giving up the luxeries, I am actually very happy about it!), but I will plan to post a very interesting adventure that Sister Manley and I had this past Friday... you will want to read it, so come back and visit again soon!

Ouch, but Amen!

Almost through reading "Created To Be His Helpmeet." Great book, and very challenging! A must read! You must be tough, and willing to study and make necessary changes though. I already am finding more joy in my marriage!
I must confess to you, ladies, I was a wretched wife when I first got married. I am really embarrassed at how ignorant and childish I was. I made life miserable for my husband, children, and me... and, several women, I am sure, whom I kept calling and whining! Every little thing, I became a martyr! I am really embarrassed to confess my yelling and slamming doors when I didn't get my way... I was a toddler at best! But God... Praise His Name Forever has been cleansing that self-centerness away! (No, I didn't break things... but, I did break my husband's heart!) Now, I adore my husband... okay, sometimes he leaves his socks outside on the porch, and little things like that get on my nerves, but it really is not a big deal, and I don't throw a tantrum over it! You know, it actually seems that my husband is changing too. Maybe it is because God is making me to be more Christ-like and kind, and you know, Ron seems to love being around me even more... he likes me to follow him around sometimes in the house and hang out with him... he calls me numerous times throughout the day, sometimes just to say "I Love You," or "How is your day going? How are the kids?" I eat it up! Keep in mind that we haven't even been married five years yet. I am so glad that God is teaching me at an early stage, but sorry that I was terrible at the beginning. I couldn't ask for a better hubby or one who loves God more. He is a real minister, whether he is here or elsewhere! I am proud of him!
Okay, my point is... Get That Book! And, be willing to be changed forever!

Loving Life

Saturday morning I woke up BEFORE 7:00. Applause. Didn't go to bed Friday night until after midnight. Pause. No, I was not contemplating deep thoughts in my recliner with my study books at hand. No, I was not cradling an ill child, or talking deep philosophy with my precious husband. What was I doing up at that time of night?



I was having a BLAST! Okay, the wonderful person with whome I was shopping, was not having so much fun. Bless her heart, we both had our children with us because our hubbies were out of town, totaling 5 small children, and one who is coming soon (mine, that is!). I was a chatter box... no big surprise! Everything in the world got talked about, due to my conversations being bottled up for so long, and the fact that I just love to talk. I could talk for hours on end, and not get anything accomplished (except to seem ridiculous to all around me). Not really proud of all that, but ask my parents, hubby, or close friends... I think they have all been shocked at my never ending flow of words... I will even repeat the same story sometimes, just to have more of a chance to be vocal.



Anyway, Ron had taken a large group of young people to a lock-in in Zanesville, Ohio, and Brother Manley was gone to some sort of event this weekend, so I thoughtit would be a great time for Sister Manley and I to get together and do something ladies like to do. Really, I don't usually mind having my kids coming along, because it is what I am used to. So... off we went to go out to eat andgo shopping! Fun, fun.



It all started off that my girls were in their jammies the whole time...love my girls' PJs! Then, the place we chose to eat out at was packed... we had to wait for highchairs for our babies, and the noise and the busyness of it all was playing on my dear friend's nerves. I was just happy to be near yummy food, and was glad that I only had to pay $5, plus tax, for my meal, and my children's meals were free! I would say that was a nice bargain for getting all you could eat! The restaurant had a hideous cartoon playing "Pokemon." I am very anti-Pokemon... but, we survived the Cici' exerience. A little frazzled, but well.

Then, we went shopping. I had a total of $15 to spend on this whole evening, so I had to be a wise shopper! Ha! I was down to nine something because of the meal, but I liked looking around and daydreaming anyway! My oldest daughter had the case of "I want to buy this, I want to buy that!" One dollar to heris equal to $500. She didn't even have any money, she just loves to beg.

Then, the worst thing ever started to happen... my children got tired! Major melt-down! It starts offwith whining and complaining, and then, later comes the worst behaviors you ever saw from a human being... uncontrollable screaming and crying, you would have had to be there. Okay, my princesses are a bit on the strong-willed side, so when the strong willed hearts meet absolute exhaustion, it is not a pretty sight indeed.

We got "lost" going to Walmart... don't ask! Sister Manley was getting so nervous, and I was taking it all in. I thought it was fun! I have been lost so much, and ususally despise the lost feeling unless a friend is driving! Then, for some weird reason, I sometimes think it is really fun! I, chatter-boxing in the front seat, her children giggling and tickling each other in the back seat, Faithy crying out "We're lost, we're lost, we're lost, we're lost!", and both babies whimpering for their mothers... it is a miracle that she didn't loose her mind! I am laughing even now just thinking of this whole scene.

Well, to make a very long story short, we actually made it to Walmart, where I actually made some purchases (the other store I had just browsed). This is the place that Sister Manley and I were when we looked over while in the shoe department just to find Faith without her clothes on. Because she had on a sleeper, she felt it necessary to disrobe herself to try on flip-flops... She is obsessed with flip-flops! Oh, my silly child! Faithy's behavior kept getting worse, and by the time that we were back in the van, she was a nightmare! We survived, but I am not sure we will ever completely recover from this episode... definitely not sure that we will ever go late night shopping together with our children again!

Sometimes you just have to laugh or die, I think this time I will laugh.

Well, on a more serious note, I have been reading some child training material lately, and I am trusting that God will give me wisdaom and help, as I train my children to obey better and have better attitudes... God is helping me make necessary changes already, and I am glad!

Oh, for those who think me "brave" about the cloth diaper thing... think "crazy" instead! But, it really isn't that bad. I am happy just knowing that with every diaper change, I am saving money... not sure how long I will keep doing this, but for now, it is manageable :-) You always thought I was off my rocker anyway, huh? You're right, but I am having fun!

A New Fear

I suppose getting that Noah's Ark video for the girls from the library wasn't a good idea after all. I don't usually get videos anymore from the library anyway, don't ask me what caused me to do it this time. It was kind-of cute, although maybe not quite Biblically acute, but now my daughter has a new fear... She already loves the story of Noah as it is and this just added to her fascination. (Which I love my children's fascination with the Bible anyway.) Well, yesterday, Ron, the girls, and I went on a walk through the woods at Ceaser's Creek... it was thundering and by the time we were almost back to our car, it had started to sprinkle. Faith started to panic. She kept begging me to carry her, and insisted that a flood was coming. I tried to reassure her that a flood was not coming, and that God had promised He would not flood the whole Earth again.
She is really getting tender toward the Bible, and that is great. Heard her singing, "Since Jesus Came Into My Heart" and many other songs on the trip to Ceaser's Creek yesterday, and this overflowed Ron's heart. He said it was worth it all just to hear her singing those songs!
Lately she has been drawing crosses alot, and the other day she drew a large cross "for Jesus" and a small one "for Faith." Another time, she stood up on my bed with her arms outstretched and was pretending to be on a cross.
She is also memorizing scriptures. A Beka has these verse cards for each letter of the alphabet, and this is what she is learning right now. She is now on the D verse, and is doing fantastic! Praise God!
Now I long to see her really give her heart to Jesus. She has prayed before and asked Jesus to come into her heart, but she was quite little and I am not sure what she knew... I hope to see a real hunger and change within the next year or two.
As for Charity, she is only one, and still demonstrates a very strong will... and, loves yelling "No!" and "Mine!" Faithy struggled with strong willed behavior when she was little too. Still does sometimes... had a "battle" just the other day, and it was not pretty. Be glad you missed it. After proper disciplining, she was a much better little girl that day... Disciplining is not always my favorite job... sometimes makes me want to cry with the child, but it must be done.
Anyway, coming off my soapbox, I thought you all would enjoy the Noah story. Don't always know what is going through a child's mind!

Yikes! I have been "tagged"!

Um, let's see... seven things at random... and, seven people to tag... this could be hard, since several of the bloggers I know have already been tagged!

Well...
1. My husband is almost 6 years and 3 months older than me. Just think, when he graduated from high school, I was just finishing 6th or 7th grade... like an 18 year old dating a 12 year old... He actually was a Senior at GBS when I was a Freshman (in college, that is)... became good friends during a trip to Taiwan that year! He was a city guy, and I was a country gal!
2. My worst fears are my children drowning or being in a house fire or some other dreadful thing happening to them... this is a serious fear... I can hardly go fishing anymore because of it... I clam up... need read prayer about this... I am not sure I have ever been so afraid of something since I was a child!
3. I hemorrhaged at age eight, after a surgery on my mouth, and my mother stuffed tea bags in my mouth thinking it would help... have no clue where she got this idea! It was nasty!
4. I went to public school kindergarten through 12th grade, and somehow survived all the trauma! I was already so awkward around other children my age as it was. I was socially very immature, and I am sure that this actually helped keep me out of trouble!
5. I love English... grammer, etc. I think I had the highest grade in English 101 at GBS the year I took that class... Loved it! Struggled more in English 102 due to all the reports, etc., I think I will blame this on public schooling... or maybe it was my staying up many nights studying :-) (Yeah, right), and playing around all day.... I really, really, really, really loved being at GBS, and all the Christian friends I had around! (I got a little caught up in the social world. Needed it, though, I think.)
6. I received a call to missions at about age 14. One of the most exciting things that ever happened to me! I couldn't wait to be placed into some jungle :-)
7. I think my husbands smiles are about the cutest thing on the planet!

Now, all that information probably bored you half to death,
these are the people I would like to tag...
Melodie Y., Heather D., Sonja V., Dixie P., Sarah F., Linda S., and Heather L.

God's blessings

You know, God has really given us so very much! Most of our furniture was free (one person's trash is another person's treasure), but some of it was on sale or used. All of our baby furniture, just about, was given to us (who cares if it was used many years ago?). Our couch was found by Ron... in someone's trash pickup stuff... the people just didn't need it. So on and so forth. The house we rent is in a nice neighborhood, and we live right next door to people from our church... the thing is, that we don't pay as much as many people do, and we have great neighbors and a kind landlord. If something miraculous doesn't happen in the next week or so, we will most likely be signing another one year lease here. There is plenty of space here for our family, and generally I feel very safe. (Neighbors here look out for each other, and some of them know each others' business like family!) I have nothing to complain about! Yes, money does get tight... really tight sometimes, but we have everything we need. Since I don't work outside the home, this is clearly God taking care of us! It is not easy these days for families to have a stay at home mom. Here are some pictures of what our home is like. The computer room still needs help as you will see, but you can only do so much at a time. Found the detergent on sale yesterday, and was pretty excited about that! Oh, and as you can see, my children have plenty of toys, books, purses, and you may not be able to see it, but they have lots of clothes... and, the best part is that we actually didn't buy most of it... well, I do go thrift store shopping. Yes, even the piano was given to us! Lots of this stuff came to us through church family! I am so rich! When I compare what we have to the needs of so many, we really are rich! I actually may have to tell people at Christmas not to buy toys, etc., for my children... I don't know where I would put them, and I don't want them spoiled either! Wouldn't mind maybe diapers and bath stuff, though! Always could use a stock of those types of things! There is more to our house, but, because we've been moving rooms around this week, it wouldn't be appropriate to show you some of the other rooms that are still being put together. One room actually has a set of bunk beds for guests... want to know how much we paid for it? $20!!! Yeah for garage sales! Thank you, Lord, for Your many blessing on us!

The book at the end is a book I have been devouring the past few days! Has alot of good material in it that we, ladies, need to pay attention to. Of course, not every drop is agreed with, but if it is in the Bible, who can argue with that?

Oh, before I forget, our pastor and his family did a really cool thing this morning for Parishner (sp?) Appreciation weekend. They made a really nice pancake, etc., breakfast for the church folk. Tomorrow, we are having special services as well.

Okay, here's some picts... house is not perfectly cleaned, but I am working on that!

The "MOM" moment

Has your child ever embarrassed you? I mean REALLY embarrassed you?

This is what happened this evening. Went to the park... great daddy and mommy! Ron smelled something when we got the kids out of the car... He checked Charity's diaper... good to go! So, off we went... I let the girls go play on the slides, which Faith has become very good at lately. Ron sat beside me later, and as we were talking, Faith made a little friend (male, perhaps 3 years old) who asked her to go meet his daddy... Funny! Okay, so I thought this to be a little young, but cute. This "daddy" had a little girl, too, who was probably Charity's age. Anyway, when Charity decided to go down the slide the other kids were on, Ron asked me to go over to her to make sure she didn't fall... When I arrived on the scene, something was definitely NOT right! There was a foul odour... and, it was coming from my oldest. You guessed it! Not so potty trained after all! On the slide, right by that poor daddy, who shortly left after the discovery, was not a pretty sight. So, I being common sensed (HA!) clean off the polluted slide. Then, into my mind, comes the thought... OH, NO! She has been on numerous slides. You guessed it again! Most of the slides in the park had the precious mark of my three year old's presence. I was glad I had plenty of wet wipes on hand, and the park got a little bath. Could have died! Wondered in agony what the other parents thought. I would have been a little more than upset if I were them, having to tote off their now dirty children to go home! Either you laugh or cry, so I decided to think it to be somewhat funny... I suppose! Poor Faithy! She was too young to be embarrassed, but this mama may never quite be the same!
I am sure you'll understand the lack of pictures to go with this post... I think you all have enough imagination to get the point!
Well, the house arranging and cleaning are going well, and I am pretty proud of that... but, I certainly could not have done it without my strong hubby, and actually, my children even helped clean... yes, they can make good little helpers! I will have to share all that at a later time! Good night, and may you all have pleasant smelling dreams!

HELLO OUT THERE!!!

Um... sometimes I wonder if I post in vain... sometimes I wonder DOES ANYONE EVEN READ MY BLOG! Sorry, pregnancy hormones kicking in... a little on the moody side!
Got great pictures coming up soon. Rearranging the house this week, and find it rather exciting when a room is done!

Oh, pictures!

LOVE PICTURES, don't you? Sorry that I don't have any of last week's youth event... the canoe trip... Could smack myself for not being more prepared!

Well, here's a few of recent happenings. Faithy got a dress up wedding dress. She loves to watch my wedding video... since it is one of the very few things I let her watch in our home. We don't have a TV, just a computer that can play DVDs at a very slow pace! Anyway, she asked me the other day if she could watch the "welding" (wedding), and I told her no, because it is not good to watch the same thing everyday! She simply stated, "I have wedding coming out of my ears." I had to laugh! Where did she get that one?

Her wedding dress...

Been doing really well with laundry... not really allowing any dirty laundry... doing about two loads a day! It is beautiful to always have an empty laundry hamper!

I ordered some books the other day, and I am going through them rather quickly. I bought volume one and two of "No Greater Joy" by the Pearls, "To Train Up A Child," and "Created to Be His Help Meet," I think they are all by the Pearls. I felt inspired by several friends to get these. Got two of them in the mail already.

Now here's just a couple of Saturday morning pictures!

Notice the flip-flops on Faithy's feet. The Manley's gave these to her, and I think she would wear them everywhere if I would let her. She calls them "sip-sops." Yes, the nightgown came from them, too. She likes Hello Kitty stuff!

Well, we are in Missions Convention at our church, and I have overnight company coming, so I need to be moving on! Have a great weekend y'all!

I think I am going to start a dental hygiene job!

Right here in my house! Yep, whip out a regular toothbrush, say some nice things, wipe off teeth with fluoride afterward... say, "no cavities" and send people away with a bill of about $135. I could make good money... you think?

Well, before y'all rush over here eager to give your money away, I must confess my sarcasm... You see, Faith had her first dental appointment yesterday, and the above just about sums it up. Yes, they were gentle, and Faithy had a good first experience in the dentist office, although the girls picked out hideous toys... an eye ball bouncy ball thing and a set a play cards... definitely NOT what I would have them to choose! Some of their hideous types of toys have a way of disappearing via Mommy... no, I don't throw all their toys away, but I have to have a limit!

Anyway, back to the appointment... when we were through, I found out the cost was much more than I thought, and had been told by someone over the phone, I believe! Our insurance would not even cover it all... we are supposed to pay almost $50 of it! You must understand, I tried to get a good deal here, and found it to be probably the most expensive place I have ever been!

We were not exactly happy customers... liked the service... for a toothbrush cleaning, I suppose, and Faith liked the "free" toothbrush and hideous toys... but, as ends meets type of people, we are still in shock! I mean, this doesn't even include x-rays, polishing;just regular toothbrush cleaning (like we do everyday!), fluoride, and a quick peak by the doctor!

You see, I am a thrifty type of gal. I found a school desk for my niece a few weeks ago. (She is home schooled, and her parents were about to pay too much for a new one!) Do you know how much I paid for that thing!? $.54... that is right... fifty-four cents! Long story! Most of my children's clothing is either hand me down, thrift-store bought, or on a serious sale! No, my children DO NOT dress raggy and tattered. I like them to be well dressed, but God has blessed me with so much that their clothes hardly fit into their drawers! $50 is alot of money to give for a toothbrush! Hope it lasts a LONG time!

Just wondering, what does your dentist charge?

Busy, busy... but, having lots of fun!

Tuesday, Ron had an appointment after work. Wednesday, Faithy had an eye appointment (no glasses... yeah, for her... but, I saw an adorable little baby getting glasses while I was there, and the baby seemed to enjoy it!). Thursday, I had an ob/gyn appointment. Friday, Ron got paid, so I paid bills, and we went out and bought some needed items... and, wanted, too! Faithy got a dress up wedding dress... and, was very excited. Okay, so it was used, but still cute!
Saturday was a youth outing... then, church cleaning... then, house cleaning... etc, etc...
Sunday, of course, was church. Today, was family night... cheap and fun! I also ordered some books today... child rearing and being a better wife kind of books... hope to get them soon and let you know what I think of them! Sorry, no pictures today agian! I have to go now... hubby needs me to help put away laundry!
This is a short summary of what we've been up to!

Homeschooling and housecleaning

Yesterday was a day that I really worked on teaching Faith. She is easily taught, but her attention span and motor skills are, of course, really young. She really picked up on her Bible verse for the week... A "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23). This is here first verse that I am counting toward pre-preschool :-) Today, I haven't worked with her on these things yet... I have been housecleaning.
Got this bright idea last week (I think it was), to make a weekly housecleaning list to help me stay on target. Not that this warms your heart or anything, but so far today, this is what I have gotten done, and I have lots more to do...
Bathroom
Wipe countertop
Wash sink
Clean tub/ shower
Clean toilet
Mop floor
Clean mirror
Cleaned some of the shelving
Bedrooms
Changed sheets and made beds
Vacuumed and mopped
Kitchen
Wiped countertops
wiped front of cabinets
Cleaned top of stove and surface cleaned in oven
Washed sink
Mopped floor
Washed dishes
Living room/dining room
dust
Vacuum floors

Of course, I also have been washing laundry, therefore, I have lots to put away! My biggest mess is in my computer room. In here is my laundry awaiting to be put away, Faithy's school mess, etc. I also want to rearrange my house so that the baby can be properly fit in. I have done lots of brainstorming on this one, and I think I about have that figured out... but, it requires alot of lifting... knowing me, I hope someone offers to help soon, or I might try to do it by myself. I like things done on MY schedule, and I can get myself into trouble that way. I rearranged my apartment when we lived by the church by myself when I was pregnant with Charity. I am sure my husband was shocked to come home to a whole new arrangement in his house. He was worried that I had hurt myself, but I reassured him that I used my legs and not my back. He actually liked how it looked! Once I get something in my mind, it sure is hard to change me. Not to mention, when I get a color scheme in my mind... I even painted when I was pregnant with Charity. Now I am thinking about somethings that I would love spray painted. I bought some stuff to decorate with. (Forgive the prepositions at the end of the sentences... I don't feel like be gramatically proper today.)
Wow, I think I probably smell like bleach right now... hope my hubby likes that scent, because he will be home soon. I bleached alot of stuff today! I make it sound like my house is really clean, but it is far from being done! It is difficult to get everything done in one day when you have two small children you bathe everyday, and you obviously have to feed and care for them. Fortunately, they played well (overall) together this morning. That does NOT happen so easily all the time. I still had to hear, "Mommy, Charity hit me!" and "Mommy, Charity said NO!" So young... yet already fighting!
Hey... I know I have bragged alot today (just felt like it during this break, I suppose), but you will never guess what time I got up this morning! I got up around 4:30am, and made my hubby sausage and biscuits for breakfast before he left for work! Okay, I cheated on the biscuits... I popped open a can and just baked them. No, I did not stay up. I ate with Ron, then had devotions, and put myself back into my cozy bed until probably around 8:30!
Would love to have pictures today, but my disk is temporarily with someone else. I feel lost without it. Now you just get to read my boring entry without pictures! Enjoy, and I hope I have inspired some soul!

A trip worth the making

Today, we finally went! I have been longing to go for a long time! Creation Museum, here we come! (Sicknesses, or not! Okay, in my defense, I have been told before that after 48 hours of antibiotics, you are not supposed to be contagious! Also, I don't know that ear infections are contagious in the first place!)

Noah displays. Had some awesome little and big displays of the flood. The little display with the people on the top of the mountains begging for mercy with wild animals attacking and the water ready to overtake them, was breathtaking. This musuem is a job well done!

The serpent who spoke to Eve. Love the way this picture turned out. It looks so wicked.

A creation display. The dark blur in the middle is actually the girls and me posing for Ron. Not sure if he had the right light on.

Adam and the animals.

Ron and the girlies.

Plenty of dinosaur displays!

After we were done with the iside of the musuem, we went outside and went on a little walk. Loved the water bridge! We had packed a picnic, and after the picnic... Faithy and Charity got to jump in this blow up thing. So fun! We were all exhausted. Everyone but Ron (hopefully!) took a nap on the way home. Stopped by my brother's house to drop off some stuff for them, and he gave us pop and cookies! Thanks, Wes!

Loved the planetarium! Made me realize more the awesomeness of our universe and The Creator. Faithy was afraid of it.

Loved the presentation of the "Last Adam" as well. The "Men In White" was interesting. I held back tears in several parts of the musuem. God is so wonderful, and, although I had to tote around antibiotics and ibuprofen for Faith, I am so glad we got to go!

A big "Thank you!" goes out to Dr. Mark Bird and his wife for allowing us to use their guest passes! Yes, Dr. Bird, they still have some of your books available in the bookstore. Nice to see an author's name I know well :-)